Life is like the song " you have got to give a little, take a little, let your poor heart break a little. " I can deal with the giving and taking, not so good at the" let your poor heart break a little. " After I gave it much thought I guess that is " the great experience." It is inevitable that we have both positive and negative experiences. Which leads me to " God never gives you more than you can handle." Of course he must have more faith in me than I have in myself. Choice , chance, fate, consequence, destiny or a predetermined journey given at birth.